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Now the first thing to remember is women love to talk about themselves. So a good rule of thumb is to ask questions that will allow them to go in to detail about themselves. This will allow you to gain more info. Call it reconisence. While she is answering make sure and look her straight in the eye, as to show you care about the answer to the question you asked. Then ask as question that has to do with her answer. If you can get through your drinks being delivered to your table, your are on your way.

Another great way to start a conversation is to talk about something that came up in the phone conversation or where you guys met. Trying and think of some questions that you think no one else would ask. What many men forget is that women are picturing, in their minds, whatever you describe, and feeling whatever feelings go along with those pictures. That’s why i say, men to direct conversations towards discussions of feeling connected, and loved, and aroused. But some men still persist in talking to women about depressing things: cats dying, rape, starving children, leukemia…And all the while the women they are talking to are making those pictures, feeling those feelings, and getting more and more upset. Not very seductive. I suggest that men think of talking to women as an activity with a goal: you are not trying to just chat, like you would with another guy.

You’ve got to monitor yourself a little, and make sure you stay on upbeat topics, or you will be in trouble. The key thing is to keep the conversation going. If no one is talking then you arent learning anything. The be a succesfful dater then you need to be good listener. As it will lead you to pay attention to the womans tell signs. You want to know what is working for you with this perticutlar woman, so you can use that. We all know what RYU throws the best fireball and KEN is better at the UPPERCUT. Know what your sonic bombs are.

There are two kinds of mistakes men make : Not “pushing hard enough” with women, or “pushing too hard.” Men who don’t push hard enough are “introverted communicators.” Men who push too hard are “extroverted communicators.” Both need different things.

The primary challenge for the introverted communicator is learning to express himself. He needs to intensify and escalate his signals by 500 percent. He needs to focus on talking more loudly, making more eye contact, overcoming his shyness, being curious, asking questions, showing romantic interest and examining the risks involved. In short, he doesn’t need to worry about toning himself down; he needs to worry about turning himself up.

The extroverted communicator tends to be enthusiastic, silly and fun. These are often men who are in sales, teaching or other fields that involve lots of interactions with people. Extroverted communicators adore being the center of attention. They aren’t necessarily scared to talk to women, but they often don’t know what to say. They often think that the way to seduce a woman is to turn up the volume of their personality. This is what the introverted communicator needs to do–but for the extroverted communicator, it’s a real mistake. If you’re an extroverted communicator, try listening more, talking more softy and chilling out. Don’t try so hard. In short, the extroverted communicator doesn’t need to worry about turning himself up; he needs to worry about toning himself down.

What ever it is you talk about be excited. If you show that you are excited it shows you have passion. Which is what women really want. “Passion”

Well until we meet again..

Im Handsome Dave

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So i see you have returned for another “round” of insertion. Are you ready for true “mental” penetration?

Today’s session will be a quick reference guide for dating..places to go..things to do and say that may lead you to your dates metaphoric and literal door step..These are suggestions, they are in no way a fool proof plan, for the mind of a woman is a complex web of tricky go betweens, swicharoos and back alley sneakiness

Now from my experience i found that if you are taking a woman out to eat dinner or lunch for the first time. You want to make sure that you go to a place that has food that will not drip too easy or make your breath smell like a bag of funoins and saurkraut. If you are planning to spend the whole evening with her (which is the point right) then any food with beans or broccoli is a bad idea due to the fact they both cause gas. (No girl wants to smell your anal sepage and you dont want to be in your hole 13 putt at miniature golf course and leave a cloud of smoke.

Eating food that is high in protein is a good idea to keep a high level of energy and do not, I repeat do not over eat. It makes you look like a pig and its hard to move if you are stuffed like a thanksgiving turkey. Make sure that you eat some kind of bread with dinner as well. It will absorb the alcohol that you will later want  to consume with your date. You want to keep your wits about you and not be a sloppy drunk.

Now is know it sounds a little old fashioned but when you pick her up open her car door for her when you are walking to your car. If your are parked on the street your door is on the other side anyway.

You want to make sure that you have your evening planned ahead of time. Women like men that have a plan of actiion you dont want to be sitting asking “So.. what do you want to do or like to do?” Its a waist of the valuable time that you have to complete your mission. A simple phone conversation prior will give you the oppurtunity to find out what she likes to do. And plan accordingly. Try to involve two aspects to the night. Do not go to the movies. You’re suppose to be quiet at the movies not a good idea if you are trying to get to know the girl.Due to the lack of talking ,the movies are a great third and fourth date idea if you have already been “invited in” .

First date suggestions include:

   Dinner and Dancing (but beware if you are not a good dancer it may take you out of the running for what i refer to as the “Come on in”. As well as dancing requires movement which will lead to a not so fresh feeling, for you and her. Although if you are an experienced man then it will be an oppurtunity for you to try and take a shower with her when and if you get the “Come on in”. But dancing with give you an oppurtunity to see how close you can get to her and where she is willing to let you put your hands. Make sure that its not a busy night club. Go to a smaller bar that has a dance floor. But you do want some people to be dancing so your date is comfortable.

Ice cream and miniture golf. Now if your date is no fun at all, this wont work..The ice cream part only requires a little of your time and make sure no cone for you. Ice cream melts and you dont want it on your shirt or shoes. Miniture golf provides you with the chance to get close if she has never been before. Usually miniture golf places have other things to do as well such as; air hockey, video games and chances to win your date a souviner. Souveniers are great on a date because a woman will usually put it on her dresser or desk when she gets home and if things went well it will be a visual reminder of you and your good qualities. But it can also be the opposite if the date ends poorly.

Now compliments are good. but you dont want to complement her on something that she has no control over. Like her eyes ..yes she may have beautiful eyes but they are god  givin. Now here are some ideas for compliments; Shoes, she picked them out so its a good way to go, her hair is another good one, many woman spend a while looking for that right hair do and love to hear that they picked the right hairstyle.

Now these are just the first round of suggestions. i will return next week with round two but i am goin to leave you with this last tip for this week

The main thing is you want to keep it fun. No one likes to be bored especially woman. Why do you think they like that “Bad Boys”? Its because they dont know whats goin to happen next when they are with him. Spontinaity is the key

Thank you for opening up and letting me in

Handsome Dave

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Greetings to all-

I would like to introduce myself to all of those who dont yet know who i am or have

not yet felt my presence. My name is Handsome Dave. I am a Sacramento resident and have

spent most of my life here. Its a wonderful city when you know your way around and associate

with its good people.

Some of the things i will be talking about in my blogs are sports,(I am a Oakland Raider as

well as an A’s fan so if i seem bias toward them that you understand), Sacramento life(both

day and night), world events, music and basically anything that i think you may want/need to

know.
Well if you have any questions for me or my staff or if there is something you would like to

read more about drop me a line at handsomedave737@yahoo.com.

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Thanks for reading and Ill have more for you soon.

Awhile back, Dumbworld wrote about Mayor Kevin Johnson challenging Sacramento residents to do 10 hours of community service apiece this year.  I thought I found an excellent opportunity to volunteer, but it ends up I have a schedule conflict, so I will have to find another event.  Regardless, I would like to share it in the hope that it will inspire others to volunteer.

Kaboom! leads playground builds across the nation, in which community members work side by side to build a playground in a day. A Build Day is scheduled for Saturday April 25th at the Salvation Army in Oak Park.  The playground was designed by local kids.  Check out the video below to see the kids on design day.

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Go here for more details on the build and sign up to volunteer.  Don’t forget to tell your family and friends!

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